Love is....

Love is perhaps the hardest thing to be understand or explain in science.
Some scientist call it chemistry reaction between 2 person yet they fail to explain a lot of things or to reproduce the result when doing experiment.

In bible, the mention man have one less bone and that is at their left chest, right in front of their heart. It is stated that God take a bone from Adam, to create Eve. And the bone at their chest is chosen because God hope that man will put the woman in their heart, care them, think of them all the time. I never read bible and so I don't know is this real or just some fiction story. Coz I feel it is a bit too romantic. :P

Love is always a favourite topic I love to discuss with friends. Maybe coz I wish to have Love very much. Yet after all these years, I still fail to actually understand love. From my observation, to really define Love is a Mission Impossible. Love can change a lot and sometimes contradict itself.

I know a Girl A that love this Boy B since 15years old. But Boy B love another Girl C. Boy B and Girl C is lover. They been in this situation for past 10 years until recently Girl C go oversea for study. Girl C break up with Boy B before she go. And now Girl A ask everyone of us to help her win the heart of Boy B. I feel the situation is very funny cause Girl A love Boy B because admire him as a very rare guy that can really love a woman for forever and be loyal to the lover. Yet now Girl A hope that Boy B can quickly forget Girl C and be in love & loyal to her. To me it feel like I love this guy coz he loyal to lover. And so I try to snatch him so that I be the lover and he loyal to me. If he really that easy change heart then is he still the loyal lover that I admire?

The same predicament I can see with another male friend. He like his gf because his gf is pretty and sexy. Yet after the girl be his gf, he start to control her costume. Not letting her wearing too sexy. Typical guy rite? But for me, I feel why do we have to do this. Since we love the girl coz she sexy, but after she become our gf we don't let her wear sexy. And more worse is when going out with her, we look at other sexy girl. Kind of very contradict idea if you ask me.

Of course love is also changing a person. Some guys become mature and more responsible after they have love. Some will learn how silly they are after their gf break up with them. Some will have deeper comprehend.



There is a lot of theory or concept in love too. Such as love cannot be compare(爱情不能作比较). Yet sometimes we say...He must be better then me and love you so much(他一定很爱你 也把我比下去). Or "The most furthest distance in this world is not heaven and earth but is me in front of you and you never notice" (有人說　世界上最遙遠的距離不是生與死 而是我就站在你面前　你卻不知道我愛你).

Right until this moment, I can only say is to find someone you love is hard, but to find someone you love and love you is harder. And the hardest is to be with someone as husband and wife because to love each other forever is hardest.

When I first hear this song I don't feel anything but after mature a bit, I more understand the lyric in this song. Salute to the singer, composer and lyricist.

相愛很難 - 張學友 & 梅艷芳
曲︰陳輝陽
詞︰林夕
編︰陳輝陽

女︰最好　有生一日都愛下去 但誰人　能將戀愛當做終生興趣
男︰生活　其實旨在找到個伴侶 面對現實　熱戀很快變長流細水
女︰可惜我　不智或僥倖 對火花天生敏感
男︰不過　兩隻手拉的太緊
合︰愛到過了界那對愛人 同時亦最易變成一對敵人

＊合︰也許相愛很難 就難在其實雙方各有各寄望　
合︰怎麼辦 要單戀都難　受太大的禮會
合︰內疚卻也無力歸還 也許不愛不難　
合︰但如未成佛升仙 也會怕愛情前途黯淡
合︰愛不愛都難 未快樂先有責任給予對方面露歡顏

＃女︰得到浪漫　又要有空間
男︰得到定局　卻怕去到終站
合︰然後付出多得到少不介意豁達 又擔心有人看不過眼
合︰可惜我　不智或僥倖 對火花天生敏感 不過　
合︰兩隻手拉的太緊 愛到過了界那對愛人同時亦最易變成一對敵人

重唱　＊,＃

合︰無論熱戀中失戀中都永遠記住第一戒 別要張開雙眼

Ridiculous excuse for last minute off~!

Ridiculous excuse for last minute off~!

When suddenly u feel like taking an off day pls don give the following excuse... It's sooo ridiculous!!!

1. My friend's new born baby past away

2. My dog is sick

3. I hit a cat while riding a bike.

4. I donated too much blood.

5. My mother burned all my clothes and I had nothing to wear to work

6. My toe was injured when a soda can fell out of the refrigerator.

7. No matter how much I've tried, I just can't get out of bed this morning. I swear, it's like I'm nailed to the bed.

8. I just found out i was switched at birth so legally i cant come to work knowing my employee record may contain false infromation

9. The dog ate my car keys. We’re going to hitchhike to the vet.

10. My fish is sick and I need to take it to the vet.

11. My daughter got a round hair brush stuck in her hair and I need to help her get it out.

12. My car ran out of gas on the way to work so I pushed it to a gas station, but I got a stomach hernia and I have to go to the doctor’s.

13. My cat got ran over and I need to take it to the vet.

14. My wife’s breasts are sore after her breast enlargement so I need to stay home and massage her tits.

The best excuse for not going to work:

1. I can't come in to work today because I'll be stalking my previous boss, who fired me for not showing up for work. OK?

2. My wife makes more money than I do, so I have to stay at home with our sick son.

3. I got in a huge fight with the GF, and she kicked me in the balls with her stilleto heels as hard as she could.

4.

I can't come into work..sorry

Why..?

I am having emotional problems..

Sorry to hear that..any cause you know of..?

I got beat down by briankelley on www.ibeatyou.com a lot yesterday

Really? You, too? You can have the day off, I know how that feels..

09/09/09

Today is 09 09 09. Suppose to be a very special and memorable date, however I feel since last 9 years, there is always these kind of special date and so I don't really feel too special about it.
In 2001, there is 01 01 01 and 20 Jan 2001, 20.01.2001. These kind of date will continue till 2012.
Only then it will stop the iteration. Special romantic date that couples should choose to get married? Depend on how you think about it.

For me, I feel no matter how great or how special that day is, when compare with billion years old earth, these date dun seems special at all. Just because Human life span is so much shorter compare to earth, and so we feel special about it. If change to life span of a Butterfly that is only 2 weeks, then maybe even a Wednesday is a very special day, coz it only happen twice in their whole life.

Value of a special date, is decided by how much value we give to them. Isn't there a saying "If you love the right guy, everyday gonna be Valentine Day"? So you can see, even Valentine day can be 365 days in a year if we decided that.

Anyway, live your life to fullest. Don't think of stress too much and so everyday is a HAPPY DAY.

HAPPY 090909

Living In Real World - 2

Live in this world is full of pressure and stress. We always feel is it we are the most unluckiest person exist....

I recently read back an email from a friend. The content is simple yet meaningful comic.















So, this is life in real world. We may think we are most unluckiest, we may think we are having lots of pressure, but no matter what, don't give up on life. Everyone also have their own problem.

Fate

This is a story abt Fate

Once there's a man who go to a fortune-teller to ask for his fate. This fortune teller tell him that: " You are going to die tomorrow afternoon at six' o clock exactly". After hearing this he go home, thinking all short of things to avoid the accident. Later, his wife ask him to go out but he say he don't want because he scare he will has accident. Then the wife ask him to eat something he don't want also because he scare he will get choke!!! He did not sleep that night because he scare he will never wake up.

The next day he has nervous breakdown and becoming more n more anxious. His wife who was so worry abt him quickly when to the fortune teller again to ask why he had to say like this to her husband. Then the fortune teller feel sorry for what he had cause finally he reveal that actually her husband had accidentally knock him down the other day without saying sorry, that's why when he saw her husband he recognise at once and that's why he simply say her husband will died.

Happily she rush back home to tell her husband the good news. When she open the door she was so shock to see that her husband hang himself at 6'c clock exactly!!!

The moral of the story:

Say Sorry when u knock down some one..... Duh~ No lar~!!!!

You control your own fate.

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I always thought that Fate = destiny. But when I go Google just now I found out that fate and destiny is different.

"Fate defines events as ordered or "inevitable". Fate is used in regard to the finality of events as they have worked themselves out; and that same sense of finality, projected into the future to become the inevitability of events as they will work themselves out, is Destiny. One word derivative of "fate" is "fatality", another "fatalism". Fate implies no choice, and ends fatally, with a death. Fate is an outcome determined by an outside agency acting upon a person or entity; but with destiny the entity is participating in achieving an outcome that is directly related to itself. Participation happens willfully."

source from: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Destiny

Happy Reading =)

Dreams

Hello Peep... This is huiling, Man man just give me the chance to drop some few thought of mine here...

was thinking since yesterday... wat should i write??

Well... Ok i would like to start wit Dreams....

Everyone have a dream and I'm for sure. But not everyone can make it come true.... When i'm young (doesn't mean i'm very old now)I always dream to be a teacher cos thats the only occupation that we know- teacher. When at that time after school we still play School, now i wonder shouldn't we feel bored? Oh well kids... Then later when i reach a certain age i dream to become an artist, to draw what ever i desire, I draw wat ever i fancy, day or nite. Hence when i almost graduate i finally decided I should be an interior designer since I thought that most probably there'll be a No Future for an artist...

Now I end up doing wat I least wanted and Art, I hav throw it away many years ago... I don remember Art too much until few days ago, an artist show me his Album and suddenly all my dreams pop out! Why i had end up to be like this?

I feel like i hav not been happy for years, all is because i lost my dreams. Dreams are necessary for life. To accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also dream; not only plan, but also believe.

But wat is my dream now?

Everyone is capable of dreaming a dream, but only a few actually become a dream. All you need to dream is a desire, but it takes more than a desire to become a dream. The process of becoming a dream requires persistent action and here is why only a few make it

Think abt it... n happy reading~

Loneliness VS Freedom 孤单和自由

I very like the article 單身地球人手冊. Because it suit me very well. Being a single guy.

I will sometimes go out alone, walking at the mall shopping for dress I need, go for a movie, and enjoy dinner. Friends who know this may find me weirdo or call me anti social, but I kinda feel loneliness suit me well. Because loneliness also is freedom. Freedom to decide go where next without needing to wait for anyone.

Because of single, I can choose to either eat raw sushi or beef. No need to ask opinion from others that go out with me.
Because of single, I can decide which shop to enter and do not need to wait for friends choose their clothes while wasting time looking around for nothing.
Because of single, I can go watch ghost movie or sentimental movie without fearing that it will scare or bored others (particularly alien.)

Even when I am at home, I enjoy doing things at midnite. When the world seems so quiet. No more Mother voice to ask me help her laundry etc.

Recently, I have been thinking abt doing backpack travelling. Live my life as I wish, without boundaries. 逍遥自在 (^^)

p/s: Wonder is there any alien want to introduce their single alien friend to me. :P